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Blessing Baby #5 has arrived

2010-06-08T11:25:00.006-05:00

May 17, 2010 I woke early after a fairly good night sleep. I was excited because this was my due date. I found it pretty cool to make it to my due date. Something I have never done before with four previous births. I still felt pretty good. But I was ready to meet my baby. I started my day as usual. Got my oldest 2 girls off to school and got my youngest 2 kids ready to go to granny's house so I could go to my midwife appointment. I noticed occasional contractions but nothing that I hadn't been feeling before this day. Biggest change was a constant feeling that I needed to poop. Laugh if you must, but being a doula, I knew this was a positive but painful change.
As I sat and waited to see my midwife I kept myself busy with some crochet but I couldn't stop thinking about this babies position and cord position. It was top on my list of questions for midwife Lindsay. She greeted me in the hall and instead of going in a room we went straight to the sono room. She looked at position and sweet baby was head down pretty low, no cord in front of the head which was one of my concerns, two hands up by her face and three huge pockets of fluid around the baby. All was good. In my head I think I finally gave her permission to come, now that I wasn't worried about prolapse. Although for weeks I had been telling my midwives that I had dreams that she was going to be born, wrapped or mummified in her cord. As I left the office, I called my husband, doula, birth photographer, my mom and my homebirth midwife Kim with a quick update. At this point I was feeling a constant pressure that was causing quite a bit of pain. No regular contractions to my knowledge so I continued on with my day.
I headed to the school to pick up my kids and my nieces and nephew. It was raining and storming that day so I ended up with extra kids from the neighborhood that were scared to go home. Including my own 4 kids I had 9 kids. My mom was there to help and I was so thankful. I know I was contracting, but had so much going on around me I was trying not to pay attention. Between 5-6pm the extra kids went home and I started feeling the need to focus and breath through the contractions I was having. I still didn't know how close or long they were, just that the overwhelming pressure I felt hurt so bad. I decided to call James and tell him to come home as soon as he could and called my doula Gina and my friend and birth photographer Lynsey. Since I hadn't had a vaginal exam I wasn't sure where my progress was and I have had previous super fast labors I wanted support. Everything I've known or experienced before was shattered by what I was experiencing in this labor. I felt so unsure of anything and kept doubting myself.
Gina arrived and James came home too. He fed the kids and got them to bed while Gina and I went for a walk around the block a few times. Lyndsey met us on the walk. It was nice having the support of my good girlfriends but I was anxious to get back home to my husband. When I got back in the house the kids were in bed watching a movie and James had put Elijah to sleep. I continued to walk and sway and sit on my least favorite place, the toilet. James was close when I needed him but also seemed to keep himself busy. The pain seemed so intense. Gina suggested trying the pool. I liked the idea since water had always brought so much relief in previous births. I settled into the pool. It did help me relax. I think I dozed between contractions. At some point I began to feel nauseous and got out of the pool. I wanted to be alone but still feel supported. Gina and Lyns stayed at the house while James and I went for a walk. I cried to my husband all my fears I was having. Was I making progress? Was everything ok? Why was it taking so long? It hurt so bad. Every contraction I would stop and lean on him or a mailbox or even drop to hands and knees. He supported me perfectly, touching my shoulders and back and encouraging me. The intensity of what I felt was so far from what I had ever experienced before I was scared. I began to ask James to take me to the hospital and just let them cut her out. He never wavered. He continued to remind me what an amazingly strong woman I was, that I could do this and that I was doing it. I wanted to rest, I felt so tired and my instincts said to lay down. We returned home and we retreated to our room where I tried to find a comfortable position. I tried using some hypnobabies techniques I learned during Gabi's pregnancy. I seemed to relax between the contraction and rest. It felt good being alone with James but I felt safe with Gina being in the other room. Sometime between midnight and 1am Gina came in my room and said she and Lyns were going to give me time alone with James and they were going home but would return as soon as I called. In my laboring mind I was confused. I thought I was doing good and surly progressing. I tried to go back to my relaxed place but an overwhelming feeling of concern flooded my mind and body. I began to silently pray for that peace that I had hoped to envelope my birth but it didn't come. I got a text from my sister simply saying "I love you". We texted back and forth. I told her my fears and she just encouraged me and reminded me of my womanly strength and that God had made me to do this work. I decided to get back in the pool. I desperately wanted to wake James but knew he needed his sleep. I labored alone in the pool. I never quite got back to the relaxed state that I had before. I started feeling sick again and exited the pool. James woke and sat in the bathroom with me while I labored. I continued to beg to just have the baby cut out. He never changed his tune. He saw the strength in me that I couldn't see at that time.
I called my homebirth midwife Kim. She talked with me for a while and I asked her to come. After that I called my sister. We were not planning on having any extra family at this birth but I needed her. Her touch and her encouragement were so important. She must have arrived in 2 min. I think it was around 5am by now and I just couldn't seem to find my way. I laid down on my floor and James laid next to me. His support brought me back to that peaceful place. Kim arrived and I asked to be checked. I NEEDED to know that my body was indeed making progress. I had 7 in my head and really wasn't prepared to hear anything different. So when she said 7cm and baby engaged, I felt a new energy and some hope that I could finish this race. The kids started to wake and I asked that my mom be called to help. Lyns was called again and quickly on her way. My sister re-braided my hair and applied pressure to my back through contractions. I seemed to be moving with my body well. I wanted to get in the water again. For an hour I relaxed well in the water, even sleeping in between contractions. After an hour that same nauseous feeling returned and I got out. I asked if Kim had a birth chair and it was brought in and set up. James sat behind me and supported me as I felt an amazingly strong pressure. I now know it was a combination of babies head and hands. Kim suggested that i try to push through the pain with the next contraction. It felt horrible and good at the same time and with all the power I had I pushed. My water burst with a loud pop. I now felt that I couldn't stop pushing. This was at 11am. I tried a few more contractions on the birth stool and then got into the water. My sweet Gabriella who had been an almost constant presence throughout my labor was in the water across from me. She would say "I see the babies head mom" "Your doing great" "She's coming mom, you can do it". I looked to everyone there for some look or word to make me feel this was normal and ok. I cried out to God and asked for help. I heard Kim echoing my prayer. As I pushed I felt her head emerging and slipping back in as the contraction ended but the pressure remained. I felt panicked, it seemed to be taking so long. I screamed and cried as I pushed. I finally felt her head stay and not go back in. I pushed until we could see her face but she wasn't coming any further. Kim asked me to stand and put one foot on the side of the pool. Her cord was wrapped tight around her neck. God guided Kim's hands and he loosened that cord just enough and my very cord wrapped baby was born at 11:10 am. She didn't cry, she didn't take a breath, she looked limp and lifeless. The joy I wanted to be feeling was interrupted. I began to call her name and tell her to cry. Kim was breathing for her and apprentice and friend Brittany began to help. Ella had a heartbeat but not strong. They did chest compressions and mouth to mouth on and off for 6 minutes. Ellanora finally let out a loud cry. She was placed in my arms. I could tell she still wasn't 100% there. I rubbed her head and body with the towel and talked to her. I had been standing in the pool all this time since we were still attached by the cord. I got out of the pool and headed for my room but stopped in the hall as I felt the placenta come out. Everyone helped me get to the bed. Ella began to really cry and it was like music to my ears. My sweet baby was here, alive and well. We were given lots of time to bond. I asked them to weigh her. She was 10 pounds 8 ounces and 21 1/2 inches long. By far my biggest baby.
This birth was so different than any of my other births. It was not what I had pictured in my head. It was a much harder marathon with a difficult end but it's mine and I am so thankful for God's presence. For His mercy and His almighty hand over me and Ellanora. Everyone present at any point in this birth played an important role. Everything that happened had a purpose, and I am grateful for the opportunity to walk through this, even if only to know and feel and give all the glory to God.

We welcomed with love, Ellanora Isabelle Campbell on May 18th 2010.

View her birth photo slideshow here

A few newborn pictures at my site

Womb with a View

2010-03-25T16:44:00.002-05:00

Had the fantastic opportunity to See my little baby bean growing last week at 31 weeks. A friend just purchased the Fort Worth Stork Vision. I recamend this place to anyone wanting an awesome view of thier growing baby.
We all think this little one looks much like my 3rd daughter Krisalyn. Now to see if she'll have those adorable dimples too.

Disagreeing with my Body

2010-03-25T16:37:00.002-05:00

I am in total disagreement with my pregant body right now. Since yesterday morning my body has been contracting throughout the day. No recognizable pattern, just pretty darn consistant. This wouldn't be a problem but I am not ready to have a baby at 32 weeks. Im resting as much as I can with a 2 and 4 yr old that stay at home all day. I am very ready for everything to stop and just let me enjoy several more weeks of baby baking.

Most recent pic of me and the kids, since no post is complete without a pic.

Life in the Campbell Household

2010-02-17T09:11:00.003-06:00

It's been almost a year since my last post. Elijah turned 2 on Jan 25,2010 and Krisalyn just turned 4 on Feb 12, 2010. We have been super busy and are even making preperations for the arrival of our 5th little blessing in May 2010. Time flys but we are trying to enjoy every minute. We are abundantly blessed. And last week our area broke weather records and saw a good 12 inches of powdery white snow. Quite the sight and the kids had a blast playing in it.

Homade Dresses

2009-07-02T12:39:00.001-05:00

Well my first attempt at sewing went suprisingly well. I made some 4th of july dresses for the girls.

Beaunna's 7 year Pics

2009-07-02T12:25:00.002-05:00

It only took me 3 extra months but I finally took some pictures for Breaunna's 7th birthday.
This is my favorite. I love close ups,and her eyes are amazing in this. I am still working on her slideshow but I will post it soon.

Let's Make some Brownies

2009-06-12T17:58:00.003-05:00

My girls love to help in the kitchen so they all worked together to make some brownies.

They did most of the work. Breaunna read the directions and I helped with some of the measuring to ensure a smaller mess. I was proud of them for working together and then end result tastes so good.

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8 years

2009-06-12T17:48:00.003-05:00

This week on Tuesday June 9, 2009 James and I celebrated 8 years of marriage. I can't say that it's been easy, but I don't think anyone can. It's been work at times and sometimes a breeze. One thing is for sure, I love him more everyday and the time is flying by so fast. Thankyou to all our family and friends who have prayed for us. We are looking forward to the years ahead and the new memories we will make together.

Our Wedding
http://www.photodex.com/sharing/viewshow?fl=3106563&alb=0

Rain Rain Go Away

2009-05-09T11:49:00.002-05:00

Living in Texas, the weather is always interesting. But this is crazy. So much rain, on again off again. The ground is pretty saturated and a new batch of storms should be rolling through soon. What fun, right!

A Day at a Time

2009-04-15T22:14:00.002-05:00

Life in the fast lane could be a dead end.
By Unknown

These days it does seem like our lives are being lived in the fast lane. Breaunna turned seven back on April 4th. I will have a post all about her soon. TIME!!!!
Easter was fun. Big Sister Shaunna came up with a fun evening the day before Easter. All the grandkids snuck in Grannie and Grandads backyard and hid Eggs, then the grandparents got to hunt them. We then had a yummy dinner and a bit of time to just talk.
I am still working hard reading, studying and apprenticing to become a midwife. It is consuming a large amount of time from my day. And since birth is more of an on-call basis childcare is hard. If any of you know of someone who is looking for nanny work and is interested in being on call, please send them my way.

Easter is right around the corner

2009-03-26T16:30:00.004-05:00

Easter is coming up and I wanted something unique for the girls. A friend of mine ~ Cindy Brown~ made the dresses for me. They are a little short so I bought some capri pants to go under them. Elijah's outfit has green and blue too so they all go together well. I am looking forward to taking pictures of all of them at the Arboretum as soon as the weather warms up again.

Updates

2009-03-23T08:23:00.002-05:00

I think it's safe to say I've let my blog go. It's been over a month since my last post. If you really want to stay up to date you might want to get connected with my facebook.
We are surving on a day to day basis but I would like it to be more than a survival. Im just not sure that's possible right now. Thank you to everyone who is praying for me and for our family. It is felt and I appreciate you.

Krisalyn is 3

2009-02-19T12:40:00.005-06:00

I know I am a week late but atleast I'm here. There are a lot of emotions for me that surround Krisalyns birth. I wanted a home birth so bad and got it with her. Evne better her daddy and I got to catch her together. It was the fullfillment of both of our dreams.

She had the most adorable dimples from the very beginning. She is tiny but mighty. She is strong willed but so sweet. She is my Krisalyn. Who brings me so much joy and teaches me new things about life everyday.

1st Birthday

2nd Birthday

3rd Birthday

School Update

2009-02-07T18:25:00.002-06:00

I have not officially had my first module with the ATM Midwifery program but have been apprenticing with a local midwife for almost a month now. A HUGE thankyou to all the friends and family that have helped with the kids. You have NO idea how much your help means to me.
I am learning so much and at the moment am studying the anatomy and physiology portion. It is so many terms and diagrams. I am glad I am doing this a little early instead of waiting till April.

Thanks again for the help and the prayers. This is going to be a long hard process but all of your support means so much to me and this will be worth it in the end.

The First Year

2009-01-25T12:43:00.002-06:00

My sweet baby boy is turning ONE year old today. As I look back on this last year of his life I can't help but feel a little sad. I am thankful for such a healthy little boy. We had a scare when he was about 4 days old but the Lord brought us through. Since then he hasn't been to the doctor even once.
People told me that having a boy was different than having my 3 girls. I didn't believe them because my girls seemed so energetic. Elijah was and is different though. He has been such a loving baby but is certainly showing us a more engertic BOY side of himself these days. He is into everything and I fully expect to see him walking on his own very soon. He started off as one of my smallest babies, just 8lbs. 13oz and 21in. Exactly one year later he is 27 pounds and 30 inches tall. Most of that growth was made on Breastmilk only. He still loves to nurse but LOVES food too. He loves chasing after his sisters and is a big daddies boy. We are so blessed to have enjoyed him this first year of his life and look forward to enjoying him while he is still little.

Below you will find a slideshow that I put together of each of his months Photo Shoots from the day he was born up to today One year. Enjoy, and remember to cherrish all the moments with you little ones, because they grow so very fast.

First Birth as Student

2009-01-15T16:08:00.002-06:00

I attended my first birth as a student midwife yesterday. I am not allowed to perform any clinical tasks yet but it was an honor to just be there and witness this birth. I got to hand the midwife tools, compresseses and do the charting. I was asked to snap a few photos too. It just made me more anxious to learn as quickly as possible so I can actually tend to the mother and help catch. I am beyond blessed.

Family Fun

2009-01-13T20:27:00.003-06:00

James won some tickets to Midievel Times. We went on Sunday afternoon and while I was not impressed with the food the entertainment was good and the kids had fun time. Even Elijah got into and clapped along with the crowd and once his belly was full with some Chicken, Spare Rib, Potato, Garlic Toast, and an apple turnover, he nuzzled into my arms and went to sleep during the last act.
I would not recamend spending the money on this event, but if you can win tickets it's worth it. Breaunna really enjoyed it, and Gabi loved seeing the princess. Here are a few Pics from our Family Fun Day.

A long time dream

2009-01-10T20:56:00.003-06:00

Many of you that know me know about my love and passion for pregnancy and birth. My connection to pregnancy and birth began at a young age. I would sit next to the pregnant ladies at church and even offered to come to the birth. I didn't have fears I just knew I thought I could help and wanted to be there. I have a facination in the miracle and all that go's along with it. So almost 6 years ago I certified as a birth doula and have enjoyed serving woman through Pregnancy, Labour, birth and postpartum. Even then I felt that I wasn't making a big enough difference to help woman get past the "One size Fit's all" medical model set forth by doctors and hospitals. I have watched the cesarean rate climb to an ugodly percent of 50% and higher in hospitals but midwifery care has sustained 5% or less. After much prayer, the right door has opened and I am now enrolled in the Association of Texas Midwives (ATM) training program. I will be apprenticing with midwife Donnellyn Dominguez LM, CPM for All About Babies Midwifery. I am super excited and nervous about some of the challenges ahead. The biggest challenges are tuition and childcare. Please pray with me for these specific areas.
If you are a reader of this blog in need of safe prenatal or well woman care please consider interviewing Donnellyn. You can check out her site at www.allaboutbabies.net or call or text her at 817.994.0470 She is a fabulous Christian woman who believes in the normalcy of birth and has respect for the woman, her body and her choices. She is up to date and conscious of any problems that may happen and is ready to take action when nessasary. Thanks again everyone for reading and praying like I know you will.

Yes He is.....

2009-01-01T22:57:00.003-06:00

Elijah turned 11 months old on Christmas Day. Still a hefty 23 pounds and now 31 inches tall. He knows how to get what he wants these days and keeps his big sisters at his becking call. Not to mention his Daddy too. We had a very warm day during the Christmas week and I was able to do his 11 month photos outdoors. Only in Texas could I do outdoor photos in December, no coat, and no sox or shoes. As always enjoy! Click on the photo to see a larger format.

Christmas Review

2009-01-01T22:50:00.002-06:00

I know it's late, but better late than not at all right!
Christmas came and went quickly this year. Our family has been blessed tremendously and we are so thankful for the extras we were able to give to the kids this year.

Keeping Christ in Christmas

2008-12-21T23:44:00.001-06:00

My kids are getting older and see all the toy commercials but I am proud of them because they still seem to get that Christmas is about celebrating Christ birth. I feel so privaledged to have these 4 wonderful gifts in my life.
Remember to keep Christ in Christmas.

Hello Santa

2008-12-15T22:20:00.003-06:00

We braved the long lines on Sunday and the kids got to sit on Santas lap and tell him what they wanted. In true form our youngest is pictured crying in Santas lap. It's tradition!

Building is fun but Eating is sweeter

2008-12-15T22:13:00.002-06:00

James bought materials for the girls to make a gingerbread house. So Caity spent the night on Friday night and the girls got to put the house together and decorate it too. They all had a blast.

Icy Fun

2008-12-15T21:59:00.002-06:00

Every year the PTA at Hyman Elementary get each student a gift for Christmas. This year the board decided to ake it a gift for the whole family and rented out the ice rink at the Starplex ice rink in Duncanville. Last Friday, Hundreds of families came together for some ice skating. I got Gabi and Krisalyn out on the ice for a total of 30 seconds. I think that picture is on Shaunnas camera. Breaunna had tried ice skating almost 3 years ago and lasted about s long as Gabi and Kris did but she had a blast this time.

Tis the season

2008-12-12T09:37:00.002-06:00

Tis the season to be busy, fa la la la la la la la la

It is unbelievable to me that Christmas is so close. Then right after that a new year. Which will mean my sweet Elijah will be turning 1. I am not ready for him to be 1 yet. All the kids are doing well. Breaunna and Gabriella are ready for school to be out for winter break. I think I'd rather them stay in school. It's so hard to keep the house picked up when they are all there. Anyone want to hire a maid for me I'll accept!!! ;)

Lot's of new photo sessions lately and a few more scheduled before Christmas. Check them out.

Need a Laugh? You've come to the right place!

2008-12-05T19:53:00.002-06:00

These will expire early January so get your laughs on now!
The kids are still cracking up.

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

and one with my 3 girls and Caitlyn cause she's spending the night

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

and one last one with Mom, Dad, me, Shaunna, & Grandma Cash

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

hope you all still love me :)

Elijah is 10 months old

2008-12-05T14:42:00.003-06:00

I am a little behind in posting some things. Elijah turned 10 months on November
25th. He is 23 pounds and 30 1/4 inches tall. He is cruising now and can find a way to get to whatever he wants in a room. He lights up when someone he knows enters a room. At church he can't take his eyes off his grandad.
For Elijah's 10 month I decided to just take a few fun shots instead of a regular photo shoot. I am in love with these. Hope you all enjoy too.

The Engagement of Sarah & Kelly

2008-12-03T20:32:00.002-06:00

I am disapointed in the quality of the slideshow to view on youtube. The DVD had a great quality. If I figure out the problem I will re-upload and repost. But this is as good as it gets right now. For family members wanting to order, Sarah has my price list available and you can get her the sizes along with the number in the corner of each slide.

Thanks,
Laurie Melissa Photography

I'm very pleased

2008-11-26T09:56:00.002-06:00

Some of you follow my Doula blog, some of you don't. But I am pleased to show off my newest project. The Birth slideshow of a recent client. Just follow the link below to my Doula Blog.
www.DFWareaDoula.blogspot.com

silent

2008-11-25T11:11:00.006-06:00

I've been silent here for over a week. Not because we havn't been busy. I have had several photography sessions and even a birth to attend. Here is a quick review.
Engagement Session of Sarah McSpadden & Kelly Campbell

Family Session for the Petersens

The Birth of Dylan

Bridal Session ~ Amy Young

All Sessions are copyright Laurie Melissa Photography
Do Not Copy or Reproduce

Ruba dub dub

2008-11-10T10:47:00.002-06:00

Fun in the tub. Elijah was born in the water 9 months ago and has been happy in the water ever since. He has found how fun splashing can be.
Ejoy

Artist

2008-11-08T11:16:00.002-06:00

My little artist Breaunna Faith drew a picture of our family. Too sweet.

New Doula Brochure

2008-11-01T23:38:00.001-05:00

I am Super excited to have Elijah so big that I can get back to my passion of being a Birth Doula. Clients are comming on slowly right now but I hope to get my name out there and hopefully have 2-3 clients per month. I have a website up, but still a work in progress and now have some business cards and brochures on the way. You can view them at www.DFWareaDoula.blogspot.com
If you know a pregnant woman pass along my name. No matter the type of birth she is choosing, she can use some extra support and infomation, which I can provide.

Breaunna & the Tooth Fairy

2008-11-01T10:55:00.003-05:00

Breaunna got her first visit from the tooth fairy on Wednesday night. She got a whole dollar $$$ She is so very excited. She has been wiggling that tooth for over a month now. So I tricked her and popped it right out. She screamed the typical earth shattering "BREAUNNA SCREAM" for a second then smiled when I showed her the tooth. She quickly asked to call her Aunt Shaunna and Grannie to share her big new. Congrats big girl.

Another Month

2008-10-28T19:18:00.004-05:00

My sweet little man just made it to 9 months. You would think this momma could be a little less emotional since I've been through this 3 times before but I have tears in my eyes. It's crazy how fast these past months have gone by and to think he's almost ONE! New milestones this month are trying to pull up and standing holding on to something. As always I measured his weight and height at home. He grew an inch this last month but the weight stayed the same. He is 23 pounds and 30 1/2 inches tall.
One of the benifits to being a professional photographer is being able to take all his monthly pictures out of a studio. He has saved me a fortune! Enjoy this short slideshow of his 9 month photo session. To view these images larger please go to my flickr front page. www.flickr.com/photos/lauriemelissaphotography

1st Report Card

2008-10-20T14:58:00.002-05:00

My little 1st grader Breaunna just recieved her 1st report card of the school year. All her report cards the last 2 years have been based on more of a participation or Exceptional vs. Satisfactory standard but now it's a letter grade. The first few weeks of school had us a little scared but our big girl did very well. She made the A~B honor roll. We are so very proud of her accomplishment and are giving her a huge incentive to continue the hard work and even try for that ~A~ honor roll. Go Breaunna, you always have been our little sponge, able to recall facts without blinking, when you want to ofcorse! We love you and are excited about your hard work.

Another Year has come and gone!

2008-10-20T09:23:00.003-05:00

Yes, it's that magical day that comes around once a year and either makes you feel really happy or really sad. Leading up to today I was feeling a little depressed about being a year closer to 30. Uggggg! Today I woke up and got the sweetest phone call from my wonderful nieces and nephews (Caitlyn, Madilyn, Joshua & Noah) Hearing them sing Happy Birthday was so sweet and made me smile. My sweet husband James and our four kids (Breaunna~6,Gabriella~4,Krisalyn~2 & Elija~8months)took me to dinner last night and a movie. BRAVO is a little italian grill in Arlington. My favorite dish was taken off the menu but they cooked it for me. Then we took the kids to see Beverly Hills Chiuaua. It was cute and now I don't have to hear the kids ask for it anymore. It was a fun day and I really couldn't get a better gift than seeing my kids so happy to spend time with me. Today my dad showed up on his motercycle and gave me a card with a car wash cert. and a card from my Grandma Cash. Thank you to everyone who remembered my birthday and made me feel very special today. I love you all!
I am adding to this post to add some pics of a pladough cake that Krisalyn made for me today. So cute.

Our Family Photo Shoot

2008-10-11T12:19:00.004-05:00

We have not had a family photo since Krisalyn was 4 months old. She ofcorse in now 2.5 and we have Elijah, now 8 months old. To say it was overdue would be an understatement. A big thanks to Joshua Kile, my nephew for his assistance with my kids and a Thankyou to my big sister Shaunna for taking the photos of the whole family together.
Enjoy!

Veiw photos individually on our family flickr site
http://www.flickr.com/photos/memoriesbylaurie/sets/72157607463090777/

Pasketti

2008-10-09T21:53:00.004-05:00

Pasketti , Spaghetti, either way you pronounce it it's yummy yummy yummy. We've been giving Elijah bites of different foods over the last month and tonight he had his mamas spaghetti. Breaunna says I am the world's best cook. Makes me feel good. Ofcorse I've attached a few pics from his dinner. Surprisingly he wasn't messy all over like bis sister Breaunna was when she had her first taste of spaghetti but it was still enough to need a quick dip in the tub.

Jump jump jump

2008-10-09T21:41:00.004-05:00

The girls are no stanger to the trampoline in our backyard. It's a normal source of excercise on most afternoons. Yesterday we put Elijah on the trampoline for the first time. I did get a short video at the end of the fun. At first he was smiling and laughing. The girls started getting a little to close and bouncing him high. I couldn't believe he kept his balance the whole time. Have fun watching my little bobble head. He loves his sisters and they soooooooooo love him too.

D is for Donut or Darn good Daddy

2008-10-09T21:12:00.002-05:00

James got up with the girls on Wednesday and let them help him make home made donuts. I wish I had finished feeding Eli a little quicker and then I might have had the chance to take a few pics of thier little adventure. They took a can of biscuits and roled them into donuts and small balls of douh then James put them in the deep fryer then they roled them in powdered suger. A yummy morning treat. I did manage to get one picture of what didn't get eaten. Yet another wonderful father daughter moment. He's so good.

One more thought for today

2008-10-02T15:47:00.002-05:00

KLTY 94.9 is my station. I just don't listen to anything else. The music is uplifting and music speaks to me in ways nothing else can. All that said, I heard a song today by Big Daddy Weave and wanted to share. The album just came out in July of this year.

Photography Opportunities

2008-10-02T13:04:00.002-05:00

So it seems that the magical time of year when Seniors are making preparations to graduate has begun. For me that means, Senior Portraits. First of all, a big Thankyou to my friends Sylvia and Joel for the park suggestion. It is an amazingly simple place but it has so many different photographic backdrops and opportunities. The creative wheels in my brain are definetly in motion. So if YOU, or someone you know is in need of some awesome outdoor portraits, give me a call or shoot me an email. Prices are low and set up so you can customize your order to your needs. Here is a little peak at some photos from the Senior session on Monday.

cookie monster

2008-09-28T23:27:00.003-05:00

Thankyou big sister Krisalyn for helping us all to see what a true Cookie Monster looks like. Poor Elijah; being our 4th child has put him somewhat at a disadvantage for mom and dads watchful eye. There are so many needs being met all at once that sometimes things or instances like this one, go unnoticed until it's too late. But to his advantage, big sister has been sneeking him some pretty yummy treats! I was trying to put the kids to bed. Bre and Gabi first since they have school in the morning and when I came back in the room, Krisalyn had given Elijah an Oreo Cookie. He had destroyed the thing, NO TEETH yet mind you! Enjoy this little photo collage! I hope it makes you smile like it did me!

Elijah is 8 months old

2008-09-27T13:34:00.003-05:00

I am a few days late posting since EJ was 8 months on the 25th of September, but better late than never right! No new huge milestones but he is talking some. Dadda, Momma, laughing. The usual at his age. Still no crawling, but the girls never did crawl. Just went straight to the walking. He's still 22lbs. and has grown another half inch at 29 1/2 inches. Again shall I say, Future Dallas Cowboy!

Play Ball

2008-09-21T21:34:00.004-05:00

Breaunna has been asking her daddy to play some ball with her and even though today was a bit hot outside we packed up all four kids, each of their gloves, some baseballs and a bat and headed down to the park near our house. I think all the kids had a good time. Even Krisalyn took a turn trying to hit the ball with her daddy. But as usual her favorite thing was to swing. You will notice she soared above her daddy's fingertips, all the while laughing and saying higher, higher. Wonderful memories made today.

Sibling Love

2008-09-20T15:50:00.002-05:00

All of the kids can be sweet to one another when they want. Elijah has found a new best friend in Krisalyn, and Krisalyn in Elijah now that both her big sisters are in school. I took this pic of Eli and Kris together. He kept laughing at her. Funny thing is, they are close to 2 years apart. Both of them can wear 18 month clothing.

A Hairy Ordeal

2008-09-10T17:05:00.005-05:00

My sweet little Elijah recieved his first professional haircut. Mommy gave him his first second and third at home but had started letting it get long, loving those little developing locks. But daddy won the battle and a haircut was in the works for our little 7 month old. He sat on a booster unasisted like a big boy. Mommy supplied the tears and took some photos. You will notice Elijahs tears half way through but they didn't last long. And he was happy to look at himself in the mirror. Uh ooh, do I spot a future pretty boy!

THIS WAS TAKEN YESTERDAY, PRE HAIRCUT

Memories

2008-09-03T07:10:00.001-05:00

1. Leave one memory that you and I had together, as a comment on my blog. It doesn't matter if you know me a little or a lot, anything you remember!

2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll hope you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. Have a nice little trip down memory lane!

Blast from the Past

2008-08-26T17:24:00.001-05:00

I am feeling a bit nestalgic these days with my two big girls off to school so I thought I would share these sweet moments from the past.

In this video Breaunna is about 2 1/2 years old. I couldn't believe I caught her hole in one on video. What Luck!

In this video Gabi was dancing in between innings at Josh's baseball game. She was about 15 months old. What a cutie! She still loves to dance.

In this video Gabi is about 10 or 11 months old So Bre isn't quite 3 yet. I love the hug. So sweet.

Breaunna & Gabriella on the 1st day of school

2008-08-26T10:07:00.001-05:00

Both Girls had a good report about their first day of school. It was a great start to the week and hopefully to the new year.

Elijah is 7 months old

2008-08-26T09:05:00.000-05:00

Time for School

2008-08-25T09:34:00.003-05:00

One down and one to go. Breaunna is already at school this morning. Gabriella will go around 12:45. God answered my prayer this morning and Breaunna woke up with an excited attitude and did well when I dropped her off. Gabi is now getting a little nervous. So is this mamma.
These days I find myself nervous to even go to the store with my children. There is so much bad in the world today. I want to protect my childrens lives and their little minds. This is a great song that I sing as a prayer and thought it was appropriate for the first day of school.

Music Video by Natalie Grant

2008-08-25T09:29:00.002-05:00

I mentioned this song by Natalie Grant in a previous post and found a link to it. Music moves me and speeks to me when nothing else can. God has given this woman an amazing voice and testimony. Something told me this morning that someone needed this besides me.

Pictures from San Antonio

2008-08-24T16:26:00.004-05:00

As promised, pics from our trip to San Antonio Sea World and Fiesta Texas. James and I both agreed it was a great trip and are already looking forward to doing it again. For fun details please visit my sisters BLOG. She is a great writer and I am not so good with the words. Pictures are more my thing. She's good at that too though. The pics you are about to enjoy were a combination of photos from both of us. enjoy!

The pics of Gabi and the bowl are...... you guessed it. She was sick for the first part of our 2 day trip.

Woman of Faith 2008

2008-08-23T20:45:00.002-05:00

I had the wonderful opportunity to attend the Saturday session of the Woman of Faith tour 2008 in Dallas at the American Airlines Center. My wonderful friend Lyndsey Kelly had an extra ticket with her church and so I went. No kids, just me in the presence of God and about 18,000 other woman. I was moved by the music, the speakers, the dramas, and the wonderful woman around me.
The first skit could have been me. It was about a mom who thought someone had stolen her mind. She couldn't remember anything. After investigating her kids, husband and even hair dresser she concluded that her mind had been there all along but she let things cloud her mind. She decided to rest on God's promise in Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.
What a great promise. I know I will be posting this so I can focus on it first thing every day.
Next was singer Natalie Grant. Words cannot describe her voice. I love music and love to sing. She has to be the best singer I have ever heard and I feel so privaledged to have seen her in person. For those of you who are itunes users, check out her song "Better Hands Now" God truly does have us and our lives in his hands and has our best at heart. It's up to us to listen and seek his will.
The theme was Infinate Grace. God's grace is shown to us in different ways. Sometimes we like the view and other times we don't. I learned that "You may not like the seat your in or even the people around your seat, but God just want's to give you a veiw."
Next was another skit. Talk about feeling like the spotlight is on you, well me! It was about fires. When we watch forest fires on TV we get angry at the person or arsenest who set the fire. Unfortunetly many of us Christians set fires with our toungues every day. We burn our husbands with hateful comments instead of loving words. We burn our children when we cut them down with our words or yell. Just as it takes time for a burn to heal, It takes time for our loved ones to forgive or forget. Saying sorry and trying to correct the hatefull words is like applying medicine to the burn. But no matter what we do, there will always be a scar from a burn. So we must be careful now, before we burn with our words, because the scaring can last a lifetime. I am asking God to help me with my words and to think before I speak. Specially to the little ones in my life whom I want to grow into confident individuals in Christ.
I am going to try to post a link now to a video on youtube that is of one of the speakers and a story we heard today. It was Awesome. I already can't wait to attend again next year and it is my hope that as many of my lady friends will attend with me as well.

Check out this link

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Doula website

2008-08-21T20:16:00.003-05:00

I am still working out a few kinks and adding some more elements but after five years of excuses my doula web is finnally here. Check it out and please pass it along www.DfwAreaDoula.com

We're Back

2008-08-18T12:10:00.002-05:00

We had a great trip. Thank you to everyone who kept us in your prayers. We took a ton of pictures that have not been uploaded yet. I will share soon.

Ready Set Go

2008-08-10T23:35:00.003-05:00

Just a few more days and we are outa here. I can't wait. We made the mistake of telling the kids we were going to Sea World and they ask daily, maybe even every few hours when we are leaving. They have no measurement of time. James has had some last minute business plans that are making him want to stay behind but I am not budging. He will be coming with us and will have a blast too.

As you can see, I havn't been posting many pics. The verdict on my Nikon is that it wasn't fixable, completly destroyed. Again, thank goodness for insurance. I will be recieving a brand new D80 in 2 to 3 weeks. Stinks that its not here now cause I am going crazy without my camera.

I purchased an antique baby scale off of ebay for newborn sessions. I took a pic of Elijah on it yesterday with my old point and shoot camera. Here it is........... yes that says 21pounds. What can I say, I grow a healthy baby!

One more

2008-08-02T19:49:00.000-05:00

I have been using Mary Kay products for about 6 years. Many consultants have tried to recruit me and failed. But a sweet girl from Church named Meagan invited me to a meeting. It was inspiring. Lots of encouragement for everyday life and not just for Mary Kay. Anyway, I decided to sign up. At first it was just for the discount on the products I already use. Then I learned about the great opportunity and saw a way to show my girls what mommy can do.

Join me on Monday August 11th at 7pm at my home to give me a great kick off to my new business. If you want a peek at the product before the party or just want to place an order you can visit my website right now. www.marykay.com/lauriemelissa

Gabi's Four

2008-08-02T19:38:00.000-05:00

My loving little Princess, Gabriella, turned 4 years old on Wednesday July 30th. Unbelievable! She is truely precious, always offering kisses, hugs and a helping hand. She is so sensitive and compationate. A wonderful big sister. And now on her way to pre-k. My the time flys by so quickly.
We enjoyed her birthday by swimming at Aunt Shaunnas (MIL's) house also known as Grandma Pat. THANKYOU! Aunt Shaunna got her ready for that first trip to school by giving her a My Little Pony backpack and a blue uniform shirt. Grandma Pat did the same with an OH so Cute skirt and top for school. Mommy, Daddy, and syblings went girlie with a Hannah Montana purse, bracelets and earrings. I think Gabi enjoyed her big day.

Gabi calls this blowing a wish! too cute

She's getting so big

2008-07-29T20:39:00.000-05:00

Breaunna rarely sings if she knows someone is listening. Tonight, I was finishing dinner and Gabi, Krisalyn & Elijah all fell asleep so Breaunna and I were getting some one on one chat time. She asked if we could sing He's got the whole world in His hands. We did then I asked if I could record it. I was shocked when she said yes. So here is a rare moment caught on video. Hopefully not her last.
She also made sure to tell me that He really does have us in his hands and that He loves us very much. I hope this is not a reminder cause something bad is about to happen.

Elijah is 6 months old

2008-07-25T15:31:00.000-05:00

It's unbelievable that my sweet little guy is already 6 months old. He is a great big ball of energy and full of smiles and coo's these days. Usually I would take the monthly photos but Gabriella poored a full cup of soda on my expensive camera yesterday and the camera is ruined. It is now being shipped off for repair but won't return for over a month. So I decided to give Portrait Innovations a try. They have a great staff and I felt things ran smoothly. I wanted to take the camera away and take the photos myself but despite the newness of the girl, she captured a few favorites. I put together a slideshow of some of what she captured. I only chose 3 poses to save money. Enjoy!

A little paint go's a long way

2008-07-20T17:37:00.001-05:00

After living in this house for 5 years we finally painted one of the rooms. Anyone who knows me, knows that I am no good at house cleaning and organization. I would love for everything to have a place and all to be in order. So I am working on it one room at a time. By sweet big sister said to start with the easiest room and work up. In true form for me I did the complete opposite. Breaunna's room was full of clean clothes needing to be folded, or hung, and 8 bags later of clothes we will be getting rid of the room was done. We painted it on Wednesday and I took some before and after pics. The girls are very happy with the change to their room.

Just a nibble

2008-07-17T19:55:00.000-05:00

He looked like a kid with his hand in a candy jar!

Then he didnt want to let go.

He didn't really eat any, just a few licks of his first Sarah Lee Bagel.

Another Day..... No Dollars

2008-07-09T22:38:00.000-05:00

In the first few weeks, maybe even the first month or two after quitting my job at Sears I found myself wanting to go back to help. I would call ask about sales or customer service. It was so engrained in me.

Here I am at home with my kids and finally, I am no longer thinking about the sales goals or what problems they are having. I am now back in a mommy routine. We go swimming atleast once or twice a week with friends. I take the girls to the park early in the morning or late at night to avoid the major heat. The house cleaning continues to be the grey cloud that looms over my Sunny days. Atleast they are getting some home cooked meals. Books are being read on a daily basis and lots of hugs and kisses. My kids are doing much better now that I am home. I have my days were I miss work, basicall just for the time away. Sometimes I just need some time away, but for the most part I am loving it. I can't get these moments back.

Elijah is already 5 months. Starting to work on sitting up and standing holding on. He has really be responding to his sisters lately. He lights up when they walk through the room. He will just stare at them till they look at him then he gives a great big smile. He was laughing at Breaunna today. She was singing some spider man song and he was cracking up at her. Where does the time go so fast. They are all getting too big!

Happy Independance Day 2008

2008-07-04T13:48:00.000-05:00

The Day isn't over yet but we had a great start. For the last several years we have enjoyed going to the Duncanville City Parade. Aunt Shaunna and Uncle Vinnie picked up breakfast and got to a great shady spot under a tree at 8am. We painted all the boys hair with Red White and Blue. Isn't it great to be an American.

Elijah is 5 months old Today! Hurray!!!

2008-06-25T20:28:00.000-05:00

My little man is 5 months old today which means 5 month photo shoot. I didn't take very many because I had one specific thing in mind. Now the hard part is actually getting prints and passing them out to family. Just stay on me guys.

I love all those pinchable, kissable rolls.

We Have a New Member of our Family

2008-06-23T06:57:00.000-05:00

Please welcome our new puppy. We named her Little Miss Sunshine and will call her Sunshine. We felt that our other dog Cowboy needed a girlfriend. We let him sniff her last night. He got very excited. Right now I am keeping them separate. Cowboy is so big and fast, I don't want her to get hurt. She will grow fast and soon they will be jumping on the trampoline together with our kids.

I grabbed my camera and set up a prop and backdrop and took a quick photo of her last night that you can see below.

Our Vacation to Galveston

2008-06-21T15:35:00.000-05:00

We finally did it. Our first vacation in 7 years. It was only 2 days but worth it and wonderful. My friend Lynsey always takes her family to Galveston each year and invited us this year again. This time we actually went. It was nice to get away. The drive there wasn't bad but comming home we fought off sleep.

We left Wednesday morning after stuffing the car full of things we wouldn't need. We arrived about 5 hours later and checked in to our hotel then it was off to the beach. The kids are no strangers to the water or sand so they had a blast. Poor Breaunna got stung by a jelly fish soon after wading out in the water. She soaked her foot in some salt water and was better for dinner at Rain Forest Cafe. We went back to the beach after dinner and got some great shots on the beach. Day 2 we started off early and hit the beach around 8:15am we swam and built sand castle and collected shells. We ended the day with a BBQ with Lynsey and her kids. It was a great 2 day vacation and we can't wait to go back. Thanks again Lynsey!

Elijah's 1st Haircut

2008-06-21T08:42:00.000-05:00

He will be 5 months old in just 5 days and he already needed a haircut (according to his dad) . I wanted to keep the cute curls. He has had so much hair since birth, it was kinda like his signature, crazy hair! So below you can see the before and afters. He is handsome to me no matter what I do.

Before

........ and After

Front Veiw

A wedding

2008-06-16T15:08:00.000-05:00

I had the opportunity to photograph a friends wedding this last weekend. Instead of posting a line of photos here, you can click on this photo and it should take you to my web.
It was a beautiful outdoor wedding. So gorgeous. I was honored to be a part of that special day.

Do Not Copy copyright Laurie Melissa Photography Do Not Copy

Summer Heat Makes Water Sweet

2008-06-15T21:28:00.000-05:00

Now that school is out and I'm home with the kids, my good friends Lynsey and Sylvia are helping keep me and my children saine with a weekly outing. This week we went to Bedford Splash. It's perfect for kids of all ages. We had a great time and NO SUNBURN! Elijah is truly a water baby. He played then slept the next few hours.

Gabi surpised us all with her bravery. She didn't even want to go at the beginning of the day

Breaunna is a bit more daring and likes the twisty slide

Gabriella & Naiya
Krisalyn was mostly interested in the food and spending time with Grannie

My little graduate

2008-06-12T07:38:00.000-05:00

I am a week behind in posting this. My little big girl graduated last Thursday. Yes, I cried. I can't believe she's moving on to 1st grade. Enjoy some fun pics from the day.

The school provided these great grad certificates with pic.

Breaunna receiving her promotion certificate

One last pic with friends Skylar & Jennifer

Traditional Grad Hat toss. It was so cute! (Bre in Pink dress in the middle)

Let's do it again in get this, the year 2020!

The Long Awaited Labor & Birth Video of Elijah

2008-05-31T09:21:00.000-05:00

January 25, 2008 I went into labor around 5am My big sister Shaunna had been watching my kids for a week after my first trip to the hospital and 14 hours of unprogressed labor past 4cm. I was exhausted and the girls couldn't understand. They missed me by Thursday and I brought them home, so ofcorse labor started that morning. It was raining, so my Brother in Law got to be off work so he took Krisalyn, Gabriella, and took them to his house. Many of my plans changed when my support people were unable to come. But my mom, sister and acting doula Camron came to the house and we headed off to the hospital. The day wasn't too long, it was hard but I am so thankful that Breaunna and her cousins Joshua and Caitlyn were able to be there. I am very glad my big sister was there. Her continuous support really got me through it so easily. My mom as always was encouraging and just wonderful. And Camron, although I was her first birth, she massaged the right spots and never stopped or left my side. Even my doula Kathy who was unable to make it to the birth was awesome through phone support. My sweet husband was always there, even if he was filling the tub he was there for some pressure points or a hug or just to hold my hand. Despite being in the hospital we were left alone exept for an occational heart tone check. I walked, swayed, bounced, stomped, relaxed, and laughed my baby out. Please enjoy this little video that would not have been possible without the photos taken by my sister Shaunna, my 11 year old Nephew Josh, and some from my Mom Phyllis. THANKYOU.

Where Do Babies Come From?

2008-05-30T15:47:00.000-05:00

If you silently listened to my almost 4 year old daughter and her 3 1/2 year old cousin today you just might find out. Since the pregnancy and birth of our son Elijah who is now 4 months old, it's not unusual to see the girls prance around the house with a ball or a baby doll up in their dress.

We prepared them for Elijahs birth by letting them watch their own birth videos and the birth videos of syblings, and even a few natural birth attended by midwife videos. Well they absorbed and are now acting it out.

Above pictured, Madilyn is catching Gabriellas baby. The conversation went something like this.... Gabi sweetheart would you rub my feet and get some water Madilyn is your baby coming Gabi yes yes hurry the babys coming Madilyn (now acting as the midwife instead of husband) *( they have great imaginations) let me help you. She proceeds to pull the baby from under the dress. It cracks me up. So cute. Don't be surprised if I post pics of them nursing the dolls......they do that too. Such good little mommies.

Breaunna's day

2008-05-29T17:28:00.000-05:00

Today was Fun Day at Breaunnas school Hyman Elementary in Duncanville. I started off the morning around 8am by loading up the kids in the stroller. Below, Krisalyn & big sister Gabi holding Elijah.

The girls had a good time and you could tell the teachers and students where happy to be out of the classroom. Music played and Gabi and Krisalyn danced as if no one else could see them. Oh to be young again.

Breaunna participated in all the events. I think some water games should have been included! Here she is doing the sack race.

They did the ring toss, the egg on the spoon, chalk drawings and hop scotch and then a snack of popcorn before heading to lunch. But not before a quick cat nap.

By then Gabi and Krisalyn were tired and Elijah was ready to nurse. But Breaunna looked at me with her big beautiful eyes ....

... and asked me to stay for lunch. So we did. It was worth it seeing her so happy and the girls were actualy good.

This is a show put together for Breaunna's great Teacher Miss Smith.

nothing

2008-05-28T14:12:00.000-05:00

I got nothing today. Isn't he adorable. Specially when he's sleeping. I am sort of missing going to work. Just cause now I don't get to take pictures much. I need some clients. The kids don't cooperate for me very often when the camera comes out. Come on people, you know you need some photos!!!

This is for you Big Sis

2008-05-27T18:42:00.000-05:00

Here it is, the first entry of many to come. This is being done on the advice of my big sis. I know I will enjoy an extra place to brag on my family or gripe :)